Ever felt ashamed of 'being yourself'?, or does the poor self-esteem has blotched your outer personality?, or has some insecurity invited addictive substitutions in your life?
Mr. Insecurity is one of the creepiest intruders that destroy our self-respect and worth. It is an indisputable fact that we are most satisfied when we are most productive. But society has laid some rules over productivity. The concept is either 'commercialized' or 'categorized'. We strive for social attention by projecting an 'alter ego', which lacks true identity. Society acts as a negative molder at times, which leads to infinite worries and unfair comparisons. Most of us feel insecure when we are unable to keep the needless standards our society demands from us. It destroys the beauty of nurturing our natural, positive instincts. We are forced to wheel around the machine of superhuman attributes. Very often this invites self pity and worthlessness.
Take a deep breath, Make a deep dive
At sea shores we often content ourselves with sand sculpturing or beach combing. One rarely goes on to explore the deep secrets of an ocean. Satisfied just by the ebbing tides that border a vast stretch of mystery, we make no efforts to think deep into its treasures. Similarly the buried secrets of our beautiful minds are unexplored. We are bounded and limited by the world outside us that controls our potential. Hence we extirpate our normal self, a total annihilation of our true identity. We smash it with heavy social weapons and give ourselves to get shaped by false ideologies. We often have an illusion that we are the 'kings of our world'. But what if ‘that world’ has some unconquered lands? Driven by social fallacies we forget to nourish our true instincts. The bridge of confidence hence falls apart and we steer down to an endless pit of cluelessness. This zero gravity journey feels infinite and we give up any hope of even hitting the surface. To wear off this dreadful feeling, take a deep breath and make a deep dive into your mind. Ask yourself. Love your 'self'. Give a beautiful smile once you begin the journey to your mind. The more you descend deep, the more you will be ascending to a magical world of immense creativity. Encounter it. There you feel the difference.
Embrace your 'self'
Avoid needless and destructive comparisons. Remove the false 'molds' that constrain and deform your mind. Talk to yourself. Write down what it reflects. Give wings to your imaginations and fly high. Never look back at your broken past. At this point you revive! Break open the shells of confinement and walk away with greater confidence. That is the power we possess. The charisma of our nurtured self. Finding our true self and embracing its potential alone can destroy the vacuum we fill with false ideologies. Accepting and nourishing what our creator has planted inside us can contribute amazing outcomes.
So leave the scars behind; heal them with the power of your positivity. When a better tomorrow awaits us, it is pointless to bother what the society blabber at us. Eliminate the puffed up mumbles of those who scoffs at you with giant pride. We are the caretakers of an unchiseled weapon that is hidden inside us. Unleash the weapon and destroy the pain of suppression. Let the world be yours!